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Tony has tips for you:

  1. Don’t hole up in your house. Get out, mingle and meet people.
  2. Get your spouse out, too. If you have kids, even better.
  3. Don’t make a big deal about what you did previously. Play it down.
  4. Find something in the community that interests you and get involved.
  5. If you have a specialty or skill, offer it up gratis.
  6. Get involved with local sports. Everyone goes to games, a great way to meet people.
  7. Offer to write or report for the local paper.
  8. Take a class or teach a class.

tony vandervarker

Losing a job you love, selling your beautiful home in a vibrant city, and leaving your friends behind to move your family to an entirely different environment can be traumatic. It could also be the best decision you ever made.

 That’s what Tony Vanderwarker, an Ivy League-educated advertising executive living a sophisticated life in fast-paced Chicago, discovered when he relocated to rural Virginia. He shares his life-changing experience in his new book, “I’m Not from the South but I Got Down Here as Fast as I Could.”Tony Vanderwarker cover of I'm not from the South

 “I perceived the South to be a foreign land where people talked funny, drank moonshine, and considered it fun to watch NASCAR racers drive in a circle for hours,” Tony says. “I wasn’t excited when my wife Anne arranged a visit her parents who recently retired to the small town of Keswick, Virginia, but I was taken by the spectacular scenery and the town’s laid-back charm.”

 His in-laws introduced them to friendly and interesting people and a few eccentric ones.  They explored the area including nearby Charlottesville, a world-class city. He was sold. They settled in Keswick in 1993.

Tony Vanderwarker's house and land

 “It wasn’t easy at first,” he admits. “We bought a house in need of major updating, and the contactors were in no hurry. Our children were not happy.   And despite being close to her parents, Anne was not adjusting well.  But once she and our kids made friends and we got involved in the community, everything was great.”

 He developed a political campaign for a woman running for Albemarle County supervisor. She won against all odds on a platform to control development and preserve the natural beauty and historic character of the region.  Later he joined a conservation organization, the PEC, serving on the board for 12 years, six as the chairman. He became a witty and popular columnist for the monthly Keswick Life.

 “I changed from a snobby and cynical Yankee into an easy-going, grits and hominy-loving Southerner.”

 Anne, with her colorful artistry, became a sought-after flower arranger. She made videos of her work, placed them on her website, and began making presentations. Before long, she was speaking once a month up and down the Eastern Seaboard.

 Their son became a high school football and lacrosse star. Their daughter excelled in academics and acted in school plays.

Among their circle of friends was best-selling author John Grisham, who advised Tony on how to write novels.

 In addition to his personal story, “I’m not from the South” includes local history dating back to Thomas Jefferson. His book has plenty of anecdotes, stories and gossip about the characters who define Keswick, and he delights in describing some unusual traditions and fun social events.

 Tony  conveys how much grace and joy there is in a simpler way of life, but tells a series of hysterical stories about country living—confronting snakes and yard-destroying moles, his failed attempt to rid the roads of reoccurring potholes, the elaborate steps needed to prepare for stormy power outages, and problems building his dream house. 

 He is candid and self-effacing in relating a number of common annoyances, such as his claustrophobic experience in a MRI tube, trying to find something in Anne’s purse that contains more items than a drugstore, Anne’s neat-freak obsession, and dealing with the physical and mental consequences of aging.

 He concludes by saying that when you move to an area unfamiliar to you and your family, you need to make friends and get involved.

 Contact: Lynda O’Connor, lyndao@oconnorpr.com or Jim O’Connor, jimo@oconnorpr.com
847-615-5462

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